Disclaimer: This post contains my firsthand account of documented harassment and stalking behavior. The events described are supported by evidence, including messages and timestamps. Any opinions expressed are grounded in personal experience and the impact this behavior has had on my safety and well-being.
If you haven't read the first few parts, I recommend you do so before continuing. Here they are, in order:
Part One, Part 1A (be sure to read this before advancing to the next part), Part Two, Part Three, Part Four, Part Five, Part Six.
May 13th, 2025: As noted in the previous post, Kyle was monitoring my public Instagram, sending messages through my website's contact form, and also emailing me directly from different email accounts. He had been blocked on X the year prior, and more recently on Bluesky and Snapchat as well. I blocked him on Facebook too, but I'm not yet sure when exactly that took place (as I look through all of my screenshots, I might come across that information). And now I was seeing him show up on my TikTok:
He continued to send me messages throughout that day. Again, way too many for me to share them all, but will share the most disturbing ones. This will become a regular part of this timeline chronology up until late June.
Before I continue with this timeline, I want to clarify something: I block people for many reasons. It doesn't automatically mean I consider someone a stalker (unless, of course, I explicitly tell them to leave me alone or that I am done with them, and then they don't respect the boundary)—especially if it's someone I know or have met in real life. More often, it's about me—my boundaries, comfort level, and what I need in that moment. I feel like it's important that I put that here, because I watch my analytics. I have an idea of who consumes my content. I don't see anything wrong with being curious about what former love interests, former partners, or even former friends are up to. It's just part of human nature. But I digress. Let's get back to the Crazy Town...
"Why so Sirius?" He would go on to make posts on X referencing me with this quote. This may or may not come up again in future parts.
The delulu won't become trululu, so sorry
Highlighting the
"Life is Strange" reference here (something I was posting about on my Bluesky), because I am pretty sure he goes on to post a video on X referencing the game (and me). As we examine all of the evidence, these patterns (coded references) will become more and more obvious. What do I mean exactly? He will habitually make posts indirectly alluding to me and to the content I was posting at that time.
He was talking about some of my Bluesky threads. I
think this
"David" friend that he mentions will also become relevant again later on,
if I remember correctly. I think that comes up again when he goes on his drug-fueled Facebook rampage (which, ultimately, leads him to getting arrested—this will take place before grippy socks time). But that's still a little further on down in the timeline. Also, how're those
shittin' pants coming along? Didja dirty those drawers, yet? Betja didn't know I clocked all of that, didja?! Hold on to your hiney, honey. We're just getting started...
I didn't consent to ANY of this.
On May 14th, 2025, I posted to my Snapchat public story again. The lump on my abdomen wasn't nearly as swollen, but my entire core was still inflamed. And I still felt like something wasn't right (I was, in fact, developing an infection that I did not yet know about). The Kyle situation was also beginning to have a negative psychological impact on me, stirring up traumas from my past. But I was trying not to let it get to me, Keep in mind, though, that it's not just that I was healing from surgery, but that I was also thrust into surgical menopause.
...and, of course, more messages from
you know who:
Whenever he sends woe-is-me messages like this, it's typically because he faced real-world consequences for his behaviors. He enjoys playing the victim and shifts the blame for his actions onto others, portraying them as the ones who wronged him. I can only speculate on this one, but this pattern will also become evident as we continue along.
I wasn't responding to anything he was sending me.
Alright, so I think that's a good stopping point for this part. Future posts will branch into more than just unhinged inbox messages.
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